The beauty of polyamory came out for us over the past week and a half. Last Tuesday, we were celebrating my middle son’s birthday early because he wanted to get a whole day of reveling in before school started. A day of shopping. In the evening, pizza and ice cream…

And quite possibly a lot of other stressors in your nonmonogamy I’ve been fairly, ‘Stab a Bitch’ lately. My internal space goes from zero to stab-y pretty quickly right now. I’m not sure why at the moment, but it’s probably smart that I don’t spend too much time in the Facebook Poly group I’m a part of because there are a…

The last time I visited my friend, who introduced me to Human Design, she said an interesting thing that has stuck with me. “I don’t feel the shorter transits as sensitively as I feel the longer ones.” Meaning she’s sensitive to being aware of the longer term, outer planet transits…

OK. I may have lied. This might be turning into my Human Design blog lol. Last Wednesday, I went out on my own for my night to myself. I was hoping to run into a connection in a regular stomping ground, but not knowing if I would or not, I…

I’ve now run the compatibility charts with almost all of my most significant bonds and have found it interesting how very true they each ring. My Husband and me: My only 8–1, ‘Have Some Fun’ relationship, we do have fun and we are excessively peaceful together. He is my best…

In the last module of training, I had a rather profound experience of healing. My online training, through the Somatica Institute, goes through the same paces each day: Through Zoom, a concept is taught, a tool for achieving the concept is introduced to the entire student body, one of the…

Don’t worry, Dear Readers, I’m not going to endlessly write about Human Design. However, it has been inspiring to me of late and it’s lent me a lot of clarity that has application in my nonmonogamy/polyamory. In my last post, I wrote about the channel of mine that the boyfriend…

So, the deep dive continues! I got into channels and gates — yes, I now know the difference! Channels are the lines that connect one center to another: On an individual chart, only between defined centers; in compatibility charts as a matter of two gates completing each other to form a…

Sorry Reflectors, this one won’t be as helpful for you, but everyone else? Consider this: Rather than focusing on your undefined centers, and ‘not self’ healing, focus on your authority/strategy and strengthening your defined center voice(s). When diving into defined/undefined centers in reviewing my people and their charts, a lot…