Attention Poly Peeps: Reality TV Opportunity!

I probably won’t apply, but maybe you should?

Before I talk about why I’m probably not applying, I want to get the word out that there is, in the works, a reality TV show on polyamory in the US which is looking for applicants that October Films can ‘doc-follow’. I assume that means they will follow you for a period of time and document your experience/life. But we all know what assuming does so, check into it for yourself.

Why wouldn’t I want to participate in that??

I would.

If it were just me, I would in a heartbeat because I am polyamorous, have put the work into understanding the lifestyle, and care about living it well.

But it’s not just me. I have two partners, and neither is polyamorous nor wants polyamory to be their life.

The irony is that I found out about this through the boyfriend, who was sent the link from a friend who thought we should apply.

No. We shouldn’t. I should, but we shouldn’t.

Why? Because I’ve done the work. I’ve done the thinking, the processing. I’ve been self, partner, and couple aware. I’ve understood not just self and partners, but the dynamics of what my husband and I set out to know and experience five years ago — the ins and…