Human Design: Exploring My Significant Bonds

A Sexual Libra
11 min readAug 23, 2023

I’ve now run the compatibility charts with almost all of my most significant bonds and have found it interesting how very true they each ring.

My Husband and me:

My only 8–1, ‘Have Some Fun’ relationship, we do have fun and we are excessively peaceful together. He is my best friend. And while we are also split definition as a couple, unlike the other split definitions, we’re not split where I’m split so, I do experience a sort of wholeness with my husband. We just compliment each other in significant ways that have made building a life together compatible and healthful for and with each other.

While that is overall true, one of the things I’ve enjoyed looking into is that neither my husband, boyfriend, or I have defined head and Anja centers on our own, but we create definition in both together. The channels to that definition are different with each. With the boyfriend, it’s the channel of awareness, with my husband, the channel of logic. And it’s a channel based on the gates we individually have that, when I read about them, make me smile as I think about how evident they are in our relationship.

My husband has Gate 63, ‘After Completion — The Gate of Doubt’

“At its highest expression, the energy of Gate 63 encourages individuals to use doubt and suspicion as tools for inquiry. By questioning established beliefs and assumptions, one can uncover hidden truths and gain a deeper understanding of the world. This energy prompts individuals to think critically and seek evidence before accepting something as true. It encourages a healthy skepticism that can lead to personal growth and the development of a strong foundation of beliefs.” ~Human Design Zone

I have Gate 4, ‘Youthful Folly — The Gate of Formulization’

“Gate 4 Youthful Folly — The Gate of Formulization is all about the power of experimentation and finding your own unique way of doing things. It encourages us to embrace our youthful curiosity and not be afraid to make mistakes along the way. By embracing this gate, we can unlock our true potential and create our own formulas for success.” ~Human Design Zone

When my husband and I sit down to talk about what direction we want to go we form the Channel of Logic and it’s…



A Sexual Libra

I’m happily, nonmonogamous/polyamorous. I’m, here, writing about my sexual journey through the Zodiac and open lifestyle. Thank you for reading and enjoy!