Human Design: Exploring My Significant Bonds

I’ve now run the compatibility charts with almost all of my most significant bonds and have found it interesting how very true they each ring.

My Husband and me:

My only 8–1, ‘Have Some Fun’ relationship, we do have fun and we are excessively peaceful together. He is my best friend. And while we are also split definition as a couple, unlike the other split definitions, we’re not split where I’m split so, I do experience a sort of wholeness with my husband. We just compliment each other in significant ways that have made building a life together compatible and healthful for and with each other.

While that is overall true, one of the things I’ve enjoyed looking into is that neither my husband, boyfriend, or I have defined head and Anja centers on our own, but we create definition in both together. The channels to that definition are different with each. With the boyfriend, it’s the channel of awareness, with my husband, the channel of logic. And it’s a channel based on the gates we individually have that, when I read about them, make me smile as I think about how evident they are in our relationship.

My husband has Gate 63, ‘After Completion — The Gate of Doubt’

“At its highest expression, the energy of Gate 63 encourages individuals to use doubt and suspicion as tools…