A Sexual LibraFunny Little ENM JudgmentsTalking with an ENM friend of mine recently, he mentioned getting judged by a contact: “You’re non-monogamous because you want to avoid the…Nov 1, 20226Nov 1, 20226
A Sexual LibraMy Partners Will Make Wise Choices in Non-monogamy with Our Relationship in MindOr they’ll be making stupid choices on their own.Oct 23, 20225Oct 23, 20225
A Sexual LibraYour Non-monogamous Partnerships Don’t Exist in a VacuumSurprisingly stupid belief of non-monogamous relationships 101: If you’re fucking someone who is life partnered, you should be more than…Oct 18, 20227Oct 18, 20227
A Sexual LibraDo You Have an Interview Questionnaire for Your Non-monogamy?Simply, No.Oct 10, 20221Oct 10, 20221
A Sexual LibraBoxes: A Metaphor About Relationships“I don’t want to be put in a box!”Sep 12, 20223Sep 12, 20223
A Sexual LibraHow I Came to Transparency and Acceptance as a Habit of BeingBack to my 20+ years of faith experience! No matter your experience with faith, hear me out. This was the avenue through which I became…Sep 9, 20221Sep 9, 20221
A Sexual LibraJournaling for TransparencyI hope to write more about how the habits of self-awareness and transparency got built in me. However, it’s enough to know that recently…Sep 8, 20221Sep 8, 20221
A Sexual LibraUsing My Voice to Challenge Stronger CharacterYeah, sure, there’s a component of ‘venting’ in my more recent posts, but I can vent to friends in private. When I write, I’m using my…Aug 31, 2022Aug 31, 2022
A Sexual LibraDo Onto Other’s as You’d Have Done to YouUnder my post, Dear Ladies, Who Desire my Partners, there transpired a conversation between a reader and myself. I understood what he was…Aug 30, 2022Aug 30, 2022
A Sexual LibraLife’s Trials Force Healthy Change“You can’t always get what you want but if you try sometimes, you might just find you get what you need.”Aug 8, 20222Aug 8, 20222
A Sexual LibraBible Inspired Musings on My PolyamoryThe paths you’ve traveled before impact the ones you’re traveling nowAug 10, 20221Aug 10, 20221
A Sexual LibraDear Ladies, Who Desire My Partners:Your connection with me doesn’t need to be awkward — if it is, that’s on you.Aug 29, 2022Aug 29, 2022
A Sexual LibraCelebrating 20 Years with My Wonderful HusbandYesterday was our 20th Anniversary.Aug 24, 20225Aug 24, 20225
A Sexual LibraIf You Want to Play Hard, You have to Work HardNon-monogamy may look like fun, but there’s a lot of work going on behind the scenes to do it well.Aug 17, 20221Aug 17, 20221
A Sexual LibraTo Those Outside of Non-monogamy, Looking In:There are more of us living this way than you think, and you should understand some things about us.Aug 2, 20221Aug 2, 20221
A Sexual LibraSausage Sisters and Tunnel BrosBe open to getting comfortable with your partner’s partners — it can be beautifully expanding.Jul 19, 20223Jul 19, 20223
A Sexual LibraThe Right Kind of Partners in Non-monogamyYou learn quickly, what kind of person is an appropriate partner and what kind isn’t.Jul 18, 20223Jul 18, 20223
A Sexual LibraWhen to Exercise Caution in ConnectingYour partner’s relationship eco systems are to be handled with careJul 12, 20221Jul 12, 20221
A Sexual LibraBeing Conscientious in Non-monogamyI know that my bent toward analysis and reflection is strong and that it has the potential of drawing me away for just experiencing life…Jul 11, 20223Jul 11, 20223