Swinging: On ‘Taking Bullets’

In swinging circles, you often hear, “No one should have to take a bullet for their partner.” Meaning I shouldn’t feel like I have to engage sexually with an unappealing partner from the other couple so my partner can enjoy the counter partner who is appealing to him.

Actual bullets, rip into the body at high speeds, tearing apart whatever soft flesh they hit, inside and out. When they impact bone, they often…