The Cancer Experience: Part 6

A Sexual Libra
6 min readFeb 15, 2022

Lady Love Edition

Art by my daughter

Every time I’ve engaged sexually with women, it’s been with less experienced women than myself, women exploring their sexuality as I am … until now.

I met this Cancer woman on a dating app for couples. She and her female partner were looking for thirds to join their couple. However, as the chatting moved along, she and I felt a connection and, in honesty, we both admitted to wanting to explore just the two of us. That would be a first for their couple in openness so, though we acknowledged our truths, I remained open to meeting them as a couple if that were the comfort level of her partner.

Their private discussions resulted in her partner agreeing that she and I could explore independently. Personally, knowing how that can be emotionally hard, I so appreciate her partner’s willingness to allow for what was organically transpiring.

This Cancer woman is thoughtful and has been attentive to our connection. I found that in the month between meeting for dinner (and some fun public displays of kissing), that my thoughts often wandered to imaginations of more private and prolific fun.

I was excited!

She identifies her sexuality as Lesbian. She has a more masculine appearance in style, though still with really lovely feminine features, most notably her eyes. She was eager to dominate and spoke of her more aggressive sexual energy — and it wasn’t exaggeration. Her experience and desire to ‘take me’ were welcome. In fact, a dream come true.

We agreed to meeting at and splitting the cost of a hotel. She came my way, a kindness I appreciated. I made the reservation which was a first and it kind of made me giggle. We got to the room; I cracked a beer. We chatted about our independent journeys in openness — it’s always nice to have conversations with people who understand the intricacies of this lifestyle.

I made the first move. At a point, I transitioned the conversation in a way that allowed for that move. In thinking back over six Cancers, other than Cancer #1, I’ve always made the first move. Cancer #5 was explicit in that I’d have to, but I wonder if it’s a dynamic created by Libra’s need to be intellectually engaged first. Whatever the reason, it’s noteworthy. However, once…



A Sexual Libra

I’m happily, nonmonogamous/polyamorous. I’m, here, writing about my sexual journey through the Zodiac and open lifestyle. Thank you for reading and enjoy!