Lady Love Edition
Every time I’ve engaged sexually with women, it’s been with less experienced women than myself, women exploring their sexuality as I am … until now.
I met this Cancer woman on a dating app for couples. She and her female partner were looking for thirds to join their couple. However, as the chatting moved along, she and I felt a connection and, in honesty, we both admitted to wanting to explore just the two of us. That would be a first for their couple in openness so, though we acknowledged our truths, I remained open to meeting them as a couple if that were the comfort level of her partner.
Their private discussions resulted in her partner agreeing that she and I could explore independently. Personally, knowing how that can be emotionally hard, I so appreciate her partner’s willingness to allow for what was organically transpiring.
This Cancer woman is thoughtful and has been attentive to our connection. I found that in the month between meeting for dinner (and some fun public displays of kissing), that my thoughts often wandered to imaginations of more private and prolific fun.
I was excited!
She identifies her sexuality as Lesbian. She has a more masculine appearance in style, though still with really lovely feminine features, most notably her eyes. She was eager to dominate and spoke of her more aggressive sexual energy — and it wasn’t exaggeration. Her experience and desire to ‘take me’ were welcome. In fact, a dream come true.
We agreed to meeting at and splitting the cost of a hotel. She came my way, a kindness I appreciated. I made the reservation which was a first and it kind of made me giggle. We got to the room; I cracked a beer. We chatted about our independent journeys in openness — it’s always nice to have conversations with people who understand the intricacies of this lifestyle.
I made the first move. At a point, I transitioned the conversation in a way that allowed for that move. In thinking back over six Cancers, other than Cancer #1, I’ve always made the first move. Cancer #5 was explicit in that I’d have to, but I wonder if it’s a dynamic created by Libra’s need to be intellectually engaged first. Whatever the reason, it’s noteworthy. However, once…