The Taurus Experience: Part 1

I had two Taurus's: The younger, a peer, and the elder, the oldest man from my journey, a man in his 60’s. I adore Taurus men. They’re delightfully passionate.

The more significant of the two, the younger, was a man meeting his need for sex outside the confines of his passionless marriage. The moment that stands out to me was the first time (of many) when he confided that he didn’t want to look for passion outside of his marriage, that he’d rather be doing, what he did with me, with his wife but, her utter lack of interest in sex with him, and the need to beg for her attention, was demoralizing to him. It wounded him. And, eventually, he stopped begging and looked to meet his needs with someone else.

Now, I’m well aware that I was hearing only his side of the story, that there is likely more to it than that, but that wasn’t for me to judge or unravel. I concerned myself only with hearing him. And, no matter what the whole story is, his truth was that he wanted his wife, but he had enough pride to accept her rejection and meet his own needs. I was compassionate toward him.

We talked often, enjoying each other’s intellectual pursuit of sexuality. I enjoyed hearing about his personal experiments on himself, observing the effects of abstaining from viewing porn and masturbation to see how it impacted his drive, stamina, and virulence. He enjoyed…