As mentioned before, I’ve had fmf threesomes aplenty and have nothing in particular that I sexually want or need to experience through being a unicorn for F/M couples.
“I’m here to serve your couple” is my current mantra. I’m interested in being a successful unicorn and experiencing what new people bring to the table sexually.
I wrote about my sexual journey through the Zodiac two years after the fact. That’s two years of time to reflect. That isn’t the case now, but I’m cognizant of the value of taking a little time before writing about my present experiences. I’m giving each several days, if not a week or more, to let the important impressions rise to the top of my thoughts past the immediate aftermath emotions.
As of the writing of this post, a few weeks ago, I met with my first, intentional couple as a ‘unicorn’. She the Cancer, he the Libra, they found me on Bumble. She was the partner to make first contact with me.
They wanted a fmf threesome experience. More accurately, he wanted one and she, not desiring other sexual partners, was mindful of and wanted to help fulfill his desires. After several months of discussion between them, she was ready for action.
She and I chatted a bit through the Bumble app and when she was comfortable, we moved to kik to create a group chat between us and her boyfriend. I ended private communication with her and, since then, all our interactions have been in that group chat. And, for this couple, that has been an essential tactic for creating security.
Cancer and two Libras: That’s three Cardinal signs. Three “leaders”, three people who are visionaries. That’s a lot of cooks in one kitchen. I recognized early on that the Cancer female was the one who needed to feel comfortable and secure in order for the three of us to get to an experience so, I focused the majority of my connecting energy on her.
That sounds manipulative and, certainly, there are those who are motivated by their own self-interest but, as I’ve stated, I have a “I’m here to serve your couple” mindset and attitude about this journey. Knowing where the needs are within the couple is the way I’m able to serve effectively. They wanted a threesome — that was their…