The Virgo and Libra Experience

This journey of sex through the Zodiac, for me, was focused on experiences with men, but my door swings pleasantly in all directions.

A note about the secondary partner: He, being mostly monogamous in nature, struggles to embrace my open nature. To be fair, the dynamic between us is such that both of us struggle with the idea of sharing the other. Understanding our dynamic, our natures, the realities of our situations, and the limitations has been a lot of hard emotional and mental work for us both. Almost all of this journey happened before I met him and just after. For most of the last two and a half years, I’ve been just with him and my husband. At first, I reigned myself in for him because his situation required stability in ours. Then, as love developed between us, I continued to try to reign myself in because I didn’t want to hurt him. But, I am who I am and the journey I began before I met him isn’t over. I tried to reign myself in but, as we’ve gone along, occasionally, who I am has squeaked out sideways. Recently, we’ve given a lot of attention to understanding and accepting openness in our relationship — more on that later. There was, for a time, an agreement between us that I could continue to have experiences with women as that was easier for him to accept.

There were a couple of sensual make-out sessions with a lovely Taurus who is, self proclaimed, “the worst lesbian ever”. She and I stay in regular, fun, and flirty contact and I consider her a friend. There was another evening with a female Virgo married to a Taurus man. They had been swingers who were beginning to venture into partnered nonmonogamy. She wanted to experience dominating another woman. She had me strip and dance for her then, after some sexy kissing, we engaged in 69 style oral sex. I hung out a couple of times with them as a couple, and a couple of times just with her. I liked them both. I am thankful for the connection we shared and the exchange of personal experiences and wisdom through our good conversations.

Then, there was this lovely evening I shared with a couple who are good friends of mine (He is the Virgo, she is the Libra) and who have since, also, become friends with the secondary partner.

I was visiting their house one evening. I’d had a little too much to drink and when it came time for us to call it…