There Can Be Only One

Musings from watching The Bachelor/Bachelorette

In watching, I kept thinking of Highlander: The pain of cutting the head off of love because there can be only one.

In truth, these thoughts are the result of musings over several media impressions of late. There’s a significant inner transformation happening in me.

Over three years into living non-monogamy, as I watch TV shows and listen to modern day music I see and hear the messiness and pain of monogamy.

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I’m happily, nonmonogamous/polyamorous. I’m, here, writing about my sexual journey through the Zodiac and open lifestyle. Thank you for reading and enjoy!

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A Sexual Libra

A Sexual Libra

I’m happily, nonmonogamous/polyamorous. I’m, here, writing about my sexual journey through the Zodiac and open lifestyle. Thank you for reading and enjoy!

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